We live in a time of instant communication. Images, stories, truths and lies all travel at the speed of light from one person to a million. This tumblr shares some of my experiences and loves and fantasies. It covers everything from interracial sex, to superheroes to thoughts on life and love and how we can get through this time we have with imagination and passion and a little kinky fun. Read it and judge for yourself what you do and don't believe. All I ask is that you see with eyes wide open and listen without judgement.
My name is Benjamin. I am 40 years old. 6'4 muscular black jazz percussionist. I am single and started this to boost my friendship circle and maybe meet like minded souls.
I am the dark, primary and i am the shadow where the light cannot touch. But i will illuminate you, make your deepest most hidden desires real, tangible and rich.
I am old fashioned when it comes to how i live my life. If i can smell it, see it, taste it, feel it... Then i am happy. I believe it is better the pick the ripe fruit from the tree than buy it from the store...
I have indulged in the BDSM lifestyle and it has taught me many things but the biggest thing is that true submission is earned. It should never be given without thinking, or without the Dominant deserving it. I has also taught me many things about myself and i am not exclusively Dominant, but its natural to me. Ultimately it always depends on the person i am with. I can be tender and loyal and can make the person i am with the centre of my universe but i can also be demanding and powerful.
Mutual trust, honesty and generosity will lead us to persue paths so dark that we can only feel our way with our finger tips, when you reach for the shadows, when you explore the danger, then you should have someone you trust by your side.
who wants to be my partner in crime?
The sexiest thing in the world is whatever is going to happen next, when the only thing you know about it is that there is nothing you can do about it...
Thank you for reading and welcome to my page. Please feel free to ask me anything and if you ever need to talk or advice then please don't hesitate.
"…The pads of your fingers have become printing blocks, you tap a message on to my skin, tap meaning into my body. Your morse code interferes with my heart beat. I had a steady heart before I met you, I relied upon it, it had seen active service and grown strong. Now you alter its pace with your own rhythm, you play upon me, drumming me taut.”
― Jeanette Winterson, Written on the Body